I have oft been accused of being a bad influence, but I strongly disagree with that assessment. Live life!
Encouraging people to celebrate themselves and life is literally the opposite of a bad influence. Encouraging people to take care of themselves, and do what they need to do, ignoring the precepts of what society thinks you should or should not do, this is the opposite of a bad influence. Society itself is the bad influence. Encouraging people to ignore it and do their own thing is the epitome of good influence.
We have a rule around my house, “Whatever it takes to get you to tomorrow.” That means, we live in an utterly judgement free house. Obviously, we stop short of enabling addictive or abusive behaviors, but other than that, you do you and nobody is allowed to say anything about it.